member benefits

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member benefits


KFE is a not-for-profit organization which promotes sexual liberation for all adults, especially for people who enjoy consensual S & M.

KFE Membership benefits include:

  • Reduced admissions to our meetings
  • Reduced admissions at parties and events
  • Free personal ads on our website
  • Discounts at NJ and NYC SM clubs
  • Discounts at scene businesses

Remember: Our mailing list is held in the strictest confidence. It is NEVER sold or traded!


One of the benefits of membership in KFE is discounts of various amounts at certain stores and clubs... The last time we checked, the establishments listed below were offering discounts. Please show your valid KFE membership card to obtain the discount. If you are a Leather store / Club and wish to offer KFE members discounts, please write to us so we can include the information on our website.

Rules for Discounts

The Establishments listed below are kind enough to grant KFE members a discount. To maintain their good will in giving us this discount, please abide by the following rules:

  • Make sure you have your membership card and it has not expired.
  • Inform the clerk before they ring up your sale that you are a KFE member.
  • Realize that the discount is for you alone, not your friends who may be buying at the same time.
  • Most stores WILL not be giving you a discount on any sale items.
  • Cooperation goes a long way.

If you are a merchant, and wish to tap into the spending power of KFE, or if you are a member and have a particular favorite establishment you feel would benefit from joining our growing list of those giving KFE member discounts, send email to KFE at Let us know and we will work to add these establishments to our growing family of KFE-friendly stores and clubs.

  • Discounted admission fee to reciprocal BDSM organization's events:
    • TESFest, usually held in July. KFE members get the participating group discount.
    • Brimstone, Thanksgiving weekend. KFE members get first shot at discounted tickets and at the hotel rooms.
    • Camp Crucible, end of May. KFE members get the participating group discount.
    • The Black Rose. KFE members get the participating group discount.
    • Conduit Enterprises parties: Assembly - KFE members get a discount on the admission fee. For yours, write to and request the discount code to the next party. Please be a current valid KFE member. Each discount code is unique and for your personal use only.
  • Discounts to the following vendors when you present your KFE membership card:
    • 20% discount at the following stores:
      • VideoBook, 90 South Main Street, Waterbury, CT 06706. 203-573-1066
      • Lingerie and Party Shop, 92 South Main Street, Waterbury, CT 06706. (203) 575-1247
    • 10% off at Le Chateau Exotique in New Hope, PA
    • Leathermasters.
      has agreed to give a 15% discount in-store only (not on the web) to KFE members. To use the discount you must show them your KFE membership card BEFORE you ring up the sale. Leathermasters is located in Pennsylvania at 1023 Hamilton Street, Allentown, PA 18101, Phone: 610-434-3626 and in California at 969 Park Avenue, San Jose, CA 95126, Phone: (408) 293-7660; Fax: (408) 293-7685.
    • Purple Passion in Manhattan, NY gives KFE members a 10% discount. Show your membership card.
    • The Stockroom gives an online-only discount if you click this link: The Stockroom. Also see the Links page for more discounts at The Stockroom.

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